WHAT IS FAMILY MEDIATION?

When you divorce or separate it is generally better if both sides can sort out together the practical arrangements for the future. The aim of mediation is to help people find a solution which meets as many of their needs - and those of their children - as possible, and which everyone feels is fair.

HOW DOES FAMILY MEDIATION WORK?

You will be offered a series of meetings with one or two mediators. They will provide a comfortable and informative setting; they will help you collect all the relevant information; they will help you discuss and explore possible arrangements to suit you all.

HOW MUCH WILL IT COST?

Family mediators work in various settings including in voluntary organisations, private practices and in solicitors offices and charge at different levels. You can ask about the cost of family mediation before confirming that you want to ask a mediator to work with you. Some mediators can provide mediation which is publicly funded for those eligible.

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE?

This depends on the complexity of your circumstances, but mediation typically takes between 3-6 meetings.

CAN IT HELP ME?

Family mediation can assist all kinds of couples:

• married and unmarried
• younger and older
• whether or not you have children

Family mediators can help you decide if mediation suits you and your circumstances. All sorts of separating couples have found family mediation to be a constructive and supportive means of conducting discussions and reaching workable and practical arrangements.

IS IT LEGALLY BINDING?

Decisions made in mediation are documented but are not legally binding. A legal agreement can be drawn up from the document by solicitors.

HOW CAN I FIND MORE ABOUT FAMILY MEDIATION?

The further information page gives details of websites and publications which will tell you more about family mediation.  The UK College can also provide leaflets giving further information.  You can also use our Find a mediator database.